DEAR KATHY By Kathleen Wright Brawn The Holidays are here and while it is supposed to be a joyful family time, those of us who have gone through or is going through the trauma of isolation from a loved one, it can be an empty, painful time. I know for myself last Christmas I could barely get out of bed. I didn’t put up a tree or lights and could hardly wait to get home from dinner at my mom’s so I could go...